We dated a few weeks when he told me that he refuses to wear a condom, and that the ring (which I had) was the wrong kind of birth control because he’d be able to feel it during sex.

—Annie

Aftermath: He stopped returning my calls. We still bump into each other and it’s awkward.

We were having some drinks with friends at my house. He raised is glass, looked at the coaster…and cleaned it against the white tablecloth. “It was stained,” he said.

—Morwen

Aftermath: When it was over, more than a year later, that moment played again and again in my mind. I should have realized right then.

I wouldn’t do a certain position cuz I was pregnant. He threw a huge tantrum like he was 5 years old.

—Nika

Aftermath: Broke up with him the next day. Can’t deal with a baby when I’m about to have a baby.

At a cook out, he shared with his boss that I was pregnant with twins and used that opportunity to ask for an increase in pay. I was not pregnant, did not look pregnant and we had only been dating for a month at that time.

—Ma Chell

Aftermath: It ended that night. I saw his boss about a year later and he asked about our kids, as he got regular updates from my ex on how they were doing. I told the truth to the boss and the ex lost his job.

My boyfriend assumed that my wanting to introduce him to my best friend meant “we must set her up on a blind date with his friend.” His friend, however, was 7 years younger than her, had borrowed his dad’s truck for the night & kept touching her knee under the table. And yet, he was irritated and confused by the fact that she was not receptive to this. Then, when we got up to leave after he admitted he was actually engaged, he called us bitches and whores.

—Cassandra

Aftermath: When my guy just sat there and laughed throughout the whole thing, I ended it that night.