It was over when he told me he had no libido anymore, but he didn’t want to go to a doctor to get it checked out.

–Lola

Aftermath: After six sexless months of hell, he went to the doctor, and didn’t follow what he suggested. I moved out a week later.

We had been together for about 6 months. I lived in San Diego to attend college, and he lived in Orange County. For his birthday, we were supposed to go to Disneyland. I skipped school to drive to see him the day before with a rum cake decorated like a PBR can (we partied a lot). When I called to tell him about the surprise, he said he was tired and I should stay at my parents house that night.

—devilniss

Aftermath: I showed up anyways. He was having a party with all our mutual friends and his ex-girlfriend who I knew he still had feelings for. I should have thrown the cake in his face.

He told me he was always wondered what else was out there & that we rushed into our 2-year relationship because relationships distract him when he needed to focus on skating.

—Elie

Aftermath: I stupidly stuck around for 4 months after he said that. He hasn’t gone skating since we split. But it’s okay, I’m going to Hawaii.

I could not reach my husband by cell phone one day (unusual) and found out he had been arrested. His mom had bailed him out and they told me why, as she was crying and holding our 6-month-old twins. He had failed to mention to me when we married that he was a sex offender and was arrested that day for failing to register our new address.

—GLJ

Aftermath: Lasted another 2 years. I was pissed, but we were married. He cheated, we divorced, and they had an attorney that helped him get custody of our twin girls! I had no attorney–my ex took everything!

I was in my girlfriend’s neighborhood so I decided to pop in (we had been together for 9 months). She lived with her parents at the time. I was greeted at the door by her mother who hurried me downstairs and had me sit on a couch in the, seldom used, lower-level. After a while, I walked upstairs to see my girlfriend kissing another guy in the family room. Her mom tried to help her by diverting me. Shady. Upset that I had recently gave her expensive jewelry, I left without a word.

—Jon

Aftermath: Deep down, I knew she was a slut. I smashed it the first night that I met her. The family had/has issues. Her parents broke up, Mom turned lesbian, and I see the ex (10 yrs later) still whoring.