After a bad drinking episode, she made me promise not to get drunk unless she was with me. I held up my end and got really drunk on her birthday.

— Adam

Aftermath: She wasn’t happy, but I pointed out she was with me and couldn’t get upset. We broke up a couple weeks later as I was already seeing someone else.

My boyfriend and I were in the car when he asked if I wanted to try “Pegging.” My answer of silence was deafening.

— Victoria

Aftermath: You can never really enjoy sex with someone the same after you know they’d rather be the woman.

She told me she wanted a divorce on New Year’s day at 2 in the morning after celebrating our 9th New Year’s kiss together.

— Andy

Aftermath: Dated a woman later that year and made plans for New Year’s Eve. She canceled. I got dumped 2 years in a row on New Year’s Eve.

I saw his bedroom for the first time – the walls were COVERED in music posters, “cool” clippings from magazines, old concert tickets, and random show flyers. Did I mention he was 28?

— Rae

Aftermath: We actually dated off and on for about a year before I finally broke it off for good. I always felt like I was 13 in that bedroom – and not in a good way.

My sister was deployed to Iraq. I cried. My boyfriend told me to “man up” and asked what I was going to make for dinner.

— Marie

Aftermath: I told him to pack his stuff and go. Judging from the many texts and voicemails, he still has no idea what he did wrong.