I had been dating this college football coach for a few months and decided to fly across the country and visit for his birthday. We always had fun together, but this trip he spent all weekend blowing me off for various obligations, and I knew something was up. Later I got this crazy demanding message asking where dinner was and when I was coming home. I told him that instead of spending my time with him I’d rather visit a friend (who lived 200 miles away).

—Kiera

Aftermath: He’d been cheating on me with his ex, but apologized and said he wanted to marry me; wanted me to be the mother of his children. I drove to his best friend’s house and f*cked him. *It should also be noted that coincidentally he was fired on his birthday. Karma’s a b*tch.

I knew it was over when, after a month, we were on our way to watch a meteor shower, and she hid from her ex-bf’s friend because she didn’t want him to see us together.

—Jae

Aftermath: I knew at that moment that I was a secret indulgence since we usually went out to places where she wouldn’t run into other people. It wasn’t surprising when the next day I got an email from her saying she didn’t want to be together.

One night I went to my friend’s house since my hubby was watching a football game. When I got to her house it looked like she was leaving to go somewhere. She said, “I was going to your house. Scott said that he had a surprise for you.” I called him from her house, and he picked up, thinking it was her, and said, “Where are you baby?”

—Dee

Aftermath: We got a divorce and Scott and my friend are now happily married with 2 children…

He was my best friend in high school. We dated for six months, and we were planning to have sex on our six month anniversary (my sixteenth birthday) – both of our first times. A week before our six months, I climbed in his window (he lived two houses down and his room was on the ground level – it was our usual way of seeing each other). I found him in bed with his pitching buddy…I walked out the front door and waited for him to finish.

—Pink Cheeks

Aftermath: He came out thinking I was going to chop his favorite bits off. I told him he was my best friend, and who he was is who he is, and I wanted him to be himself. It’s been five years, and I still find him in bed with men all the time. He really needs to learn how to lock the door.

We were lovers for seven years. He went away for three years (wink,wink) and was home 100 plus days before he “went away” again. Shortly after that, I found out from his dad that he got married while he was home. His wife called me a week after I heard the news.

—Robyn

Aftermath: Me and the “Misses” talked for hours. The rabbit hole went so deep…he had three other women he had been “communicating” with, besides me, and “raw dog” (dumb on my part)!…Don’t know about her, but I am out.