Our wedding was three months away. She felt that I was being unfaithful and started checking my phone. After a whole night of fighting about why I text other girls, I called it quits!!

—Schmustin

Aftermath: It took a week and a half of her pleading with me, before I told her I was going to call the cops if she didn’t get the F*** out of my house. I have realized I’m not ready to give up 20-year-old bodies!!!!

Lots of sex. The sex tapered off (not my choice) and the computer porn came. Some nudie pics looked homemade. I looked for them on his phone and found not only those pics, but videos of the girl in a setting that appeared to be his job. He said he had meant to delete them but had forgotten. Hard to believe since they were labled “free oil change”.

—SuzyQ

Aftermath: It took me 2 and a half years to get rid of his lying, cheating, stealing, abusive ass. He went to prison. I am now in love and engaged to an amazing man. The child I had with “assdad” has no idea who he is, and the $2 he sends for her every month reminds me how lucky I am to have gotten out of that alive.

I caught him jacking off to pictures of his ex-wife. They had been divorced for over 6 years and she’s remarried.

—LO

Aftermath: He wouldn’t get rid of them so I left.

I had heard that my guy been talking to his ex-girlfriend behind my back. When she called and started harassing me, I saved her number.  After 6 months with my guy, I found out I was pregnant. I called and got his voicemail, and asked him to call me back ASAP. He did – from the other girl’s phone.

—E.J.

Aftermath: The relationship ended with the “end” button and my daughter has never met her father.

When I came home from work he was out drinking with his friend. I went to jump on the computer and found a chat that he’d forgotten to close. Lucky for me. I got to read about all the things he wanted to do with and to this other girl. He actually tried to say it wasn’t his chat.

—Nic

Aftermath: We broke up about 2 months later.