I was dating a guy long distance and we had visited a couple of times. He came up and told me he had something important to tell me. It turns out that he had sexually molested two of his own children. His therapist told him that she wouldn’t let him out of the state again unless he told me everything.

–Jen

Aftermath: He got mad that I didn’t want to start a family with him (after three dates). We haven’t spoken since.

I went to pick her up to go see a movie and went on her computer to check times. She left an AIM conversation open with her ex-boyfriend ending with them exchanging “I love yous.” I closed the window before she saw what I was looking at.

—Jason

Aftermath: I confronted her about it a week later. I wanted to dump her and she deflected the blame on me saying it was because she wouldn’t sleep with me.

It was a very long distance relationship. He kept telling me how great my Christmas present was going to be, how it was expensive and how he could barely keep it a secret. Eventually, he just couldn’t hold it in . . . “I’m flying my mom down to see where I’m going to be living with you.”

—alwaysme

Aftermath: He brought his mom and local Mexican food gave her diarrhea in my 1 bedroom / 1 bath apartment. Then he tells me he’s too afraid to move when we had planned.

Two days after my best guy friend passed away, my boyfriend said, “Now I probably won’t feel jealous anymore.”

—Jessica

Aftermath: “Probably?” He’s dead, why would he feel jealous of a dead person??? A week after that he got mad at me for continuing to mourn the loss of my friend and said that I should be over it by now. Then he proceeded to call my mom and tell her he was worried I was going to hurt myself. WHAT THE HELL!?!?! I stopped talking to him that night and haven’t since. He was an ass anyway…

He dragged our 6 year old daughter across the room by her arm then smacked her in the face for crying about it.

—Cecilia

Aftermath: I divorced the bastard. Now he brings women to his kids’ football games and gives up his time with them to go out on his dates.