We had gone on a few dates, but I made it clear that I wanted to take things slow physically, so we hadn’t done anything beyond kissing. He got too drunk to drive home one night, so I said he could stay over. The next morning, I woke up to him wide awake and dry humping me from behind.
—erin
Aftermath: I told him to leave and never talked to him again.
He was sober for a while when we had started dating. He also said that no relationship can survive an infidelity. After being with him for almost two years, he wanted me to move with him to another state for a job. He had started drinking again and ended up cheating on me after I had uprooted my life to be with him. He swears he loves me and only wants to be with me.
—Island Girl
Aftermath: I still love him but I’m extremely hurt and I’m not sure if I can recover from his infidelity. Only time can tell but my feelings are starting to wane so I guess it’s only a matter of time.
For months it was a rollercoaster of ups and downs, breaking up and getting back together. I should of known it was PERMANENTLY over when he said he didn’t believe in evolution (I’m a scientist) and that gays were caused by Satan.
—KT
Aftermath: I think we stayed together for a few more months.
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We were snowed in at her parent’s house and I’d spent the last three and a half hours digging her and her family out. Exhausted, I sagged to the floor of her room and asked if she had any Chapstick. “I offered you some yesterday and you didn’t take it.” “I didn’t need it yesterday.” “Well, than that’s too bad, isn’t it?”
I silently stood up and left the room.
—David
Aftermath: First night I was stuck there was great; second night, she was downright mean. Still not sure if I’m COMPLETELY done with her, but damn, I’m close. I didn’t wait for her to finish a semester abroad so she could come back and talk to me like I’m ten years old.
I rang my boyfriend up and told him I had been rushed into hospital late last night. His response? Okay.
—emily
Aftermath: He claims he was confused, not good enough. Still deciding how to break it.
