I found pictures of her on the Net…exposed. She claimed it was from a past experience, so I let it go. Later, my friend saw her at the mall that same week,  mackin’ another guy. My friend took a pic to show me. She said it wasn’t her and the picture was a lie.

—J

Aftermath: Her parents just went through a divorce. I knew what I had to do. I dumped that ho, and started dating her mom…cougar!

On our one-month anniversary, he emailed me to cancel our dinner date because his friend was in the hospital. I found out later that this “friend” was his ex that he still wasn’t over, and the “hospital” was a mental institution. She had come to school after an all-night drug bender and started acting so crazy, they had to handcuff her to a desk. When he heard about what happened, he banged his head against the wall and made it look like an accident, so he could be sent home from school and then go see her.

—Lila

Aftermath: It was over the moment he confessed to me that during his visit, he supported her “both mentally and physically.”

Not only did he cheat, but with “professional” women…

—Lisa

Aftermath: I am happily disease-free, and in someone else’s monogamous bed.

I was dating a guy long distance and we had visited a couple of times. He came up and told me he had something important to tell me. It turns out that he had sexually molested two of his own children. His therapist told him that she wouldn’t let him out of the state again unless he told me everything.

–Jen

Aftermath: He got mad that I didn’t want to start a family with him (after three dates). We haven’t spoken since.

I went to pick her up to go see a movie and went on her computer to check times. She left an AIM conversation open with her ex-boyfriend ending with them exchanging “I love yous.” I closed the window before she saw what I was looking at.

—Jason

Aftermath: I confronted her about it a week later. I wanted to dump her and she deflected the blame on me saying it was because she wouldn’t sleep with me.