I went grocery shopping and ran into my boyfriend, his wife and child.

— Letty

Aftermath: For the child’s sake I didn’t make a scene, I walked away.  Hour later he calls me and tells me they’re separating, I hung up on him and never heard from him again.

My girlfriend and I were having sex and she started to cry. The first thing I thought was that she’d cheated on me. One month later I found out she’s sleeping with two different guys.

— Joshua

Aftermath: The day after I left her I ran into her and she was holding hands with some other guy.

My wife’s “fiance” called one night when the wife wasn’t home and I answered the phone.

— Tom

Aftermath: We separated that night and got divorced a couple months later. They married a month or so after that and now have a kid.

It was over when his wife called me at 3 a.m. — that was a surprise!!

—tabitha

Aftermath: I found a great man who is not married and loves me.

After turning me down for a night of intimacy (yet again!), he said he wanted to stay up and watch SportsCenter on ESPN. I went to bed, but had a hard time sleeping because of the volume. I went to ask him to turn it down, but he was not in the living room. I found him in the office, jerking off to porn.

—Michelle

Aftermath: Turns out he has an addiction to porn—not so much interested in the real thing. This was handy to find out after being married to him. This, among, many other things led to our divorce.