She took my sister to the guy she was banging’s house to pick up her clothes. My sister was 16 at the time, and took her a while to realize what happened.

— J

Aftermath: Divorced, and brought new boyfriend to help her move out…

I had been seeing a guy for a few months. All of a sudden, I don’t hear from him for a week. Finally, he calls, apologizes, and tells me it’s because of school. I believe it… until a friend tells me that during that week he had cheated on me with his ex and two other girls. I went to his house to see if he’d give himself away. He didn’t.

— jody

Aftermath:  I left his house and went to a bar to cheer myself up. I met a gorgeous man, had the best one night stand of all time, then came home and typed my soon-to-be-ex an email telling him all about it and breaking up with him. Now he wants me back. Too bad.

My ex-boyfriend’s guy best friend stayed over one night. I went to bed early..and woke up the next morning with the two of them in bed.

— lemonlime

Aftermath: I said ’ex-boyfriend’ didn’t I…

This guy I was with for 4 years used “I was having a bipolar episode” as the excuse for why he slept with another girl, with the exact same name as me… for a whole month.

— L

Aftermath: Needless to say, we’re no longer together. Every time I hear Katy Perry’s “Hot ‘N Cold” I’m always reminded of him.

I was deployed to Afghanistan for a year. I had been seeing her for 4 months prior and flew her to Germany to visit with my family there during my two week leave. After she got back to the U.S. I called her. It was late at home, so she sounded sleepy. Next thing I know a guy is on the phone telling me she did not want to see me anymore.

—Dear John

Aftermath: She begged forgiveness. I told her to ask “Jody” for forgiveness. Those in the military will know who “Jody” is.