“Family Plan”

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I was dating an older, successful military man who pursued me for a year before I relented. He had to travel often, and would fly me to see him. Then I got a phone call from his wife.


Aftermath: Turns out he had girlfriends all around the country who he fly to see him, but his wife doesn’t believe in divorce and they have two children together already. I sent him a final e-mail asking him how he’ll handle it when his daughter has men like him using her. He still pays for my cell phone, which is on his family plan!

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“Sleep Around”


After learning he had been cheating on me for several months, I confronted him and told him it was over. He responded that I was crazy and just making up excuses so that I could sleep around with other men.


Aftermath: We lasted about two weeks of him cheating after my confrontation. I hear he and the girl are getting married this spring.

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“Update your contacts”


After hanging out for a few weeks at his apartment on weeknights, I asked him to hang out in public on the weekend. He said yes, then never called. We got in a huge argument on text & he then called me another girl’s name. When called out, his response “My bad. Lol. Don’t be upset. An honest mistake.”


Aftermath: He texted me another month later, asking if I was interested in hanging out again. Told him I wasn’t interested and reminded him who I was just in case he hadn’t updated his contacts yet. His response? “Whatever,” then not another word, ever.

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“I’m just bloated”

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It was over when she could no longer hide the growing fullness of her belly. I had had a vasectomy three years earlier.


Aftermath: Her lies revealed and my suspicions confirmed, she moved in with her baby-daddy.

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“Also Not True”


He pretended to own his condo to make it look like he did not rent. Of course I found out. But the real kicker was when he said that he was always taking his mother to the hospital to help her battle cancer. Also, not true.


Aftermath: Married 6 months, divorced & when I called him on all of his BS, he tried to put it on me…OK!

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