After a month of dating we were about to go at it and I ask him if he had a condom. He looked in to my eyes and said, “No… but I get tested all the time.” I told him I couldn’t, he said that if I was worried about getting pregnant we could always go to the nearest clinic and get it taken care of…
Aftermath: We laughed it off that night but it all came to a screeching halt when I logged on to Facebook and at the very top of the news feed it said he was in a relationship…
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best of manners
Went out to dinner with an old girlfriend. Up front, I asked if she was seeing anyone. She replied, “No.” After dinner, we went back to my place to watch a movie. She had been rudely texting most of the evening thru dinner and our conversations…so I was curious at this “text-pal.” I maneuvered to give her a shoulder massage and looked onto her phone and discovered explicit texts to some guy.
Aftermath: Movie concluded. I drove her home and she asked why I didn’t invite her to stay the night…
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Advice from someone else – take your current age (35) and your life expectancy (40+), do you want to live with this woman and her controlling style and verbal abuse for that many more years?
Aftermath: I left that marriage after 11 years and two children. I am now happily married and a grandfather. She is still single and bitter for 23 years.
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After sex, he proceeded to say “You’re the type of girl a guy marries,” plus additional pillow talk, and then showed me all of his best friends on Facebook. It was the second time we’d slept together and we were friends with benefits.
Aftermath: A week later, he called to say I was emotionally detached and not being in a relationship was corrupting his soul and that this wouldn’t work. I’m still wondering what “this” was exactly.
This post was submitted by CT.
best of sex
He asked me if I wanted to lick on his danglers while another guy rammed him in his backside (NOT the words he used!).
Aftermath: HIV test.
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