I asked him to help me pay for my tuition and he actually had the nerve to ask me to have a threesome with him and his friend!!! It was so weird because I thought he was gonna say, “with another girl” (which still was not happening), but he said, “Another guy,” which meant he couldn’t possibly still love me…

—Roxie

Aftermath: He still calls from time to time but I never pick up.

We met more than a quarter of hundred years ago. We were the first sexual partners to each other. Later I realized he is a very fetishistic type, who loves the pervert sex culture a little, and the most disgusting things that make me puke. For example: To cum on women’s different body parts (ears, armpits, feet). Now, I hate him very well.

—Répa

Aftermath: We kept contact and sometimes had sex with each other, because we were still living in the same body…

I asked him why he didn’t spend anywhere near as much attention to my genitals as I did his. He said because it “grossed him out” to look at, touch, and especially put his face anywhere near vulvas/vaginas. It was made for the penis, and nothing else should go there.

—M

Aftermath: We communicated a couple times via instant message the week after, but never said another word to each other ever again. Fine with me.

We were getting ready to have sex when he darted over to the computer to put on some “mood music” (his words, not mine) and got distracted by his gaming buddies on ICQ. I finally got his attention and we got down to business but every time the ICQ alert would sound, it’d completely throw him off rhythm. When we were done, he all but ran to the computer, presumably to tell all his friends what a girl was like.

—BlueCanary

Aftermath: Cheated on him a week later and ended it the next day. At least the break-up sex was good.

We had been dating for a few weeks and were making out on his couch. Things were getting pretty intense and suddenly he stopped, looked at me and asked, “Now what do we do? Do we have sex? Because we can…my bedroom is right there.” I was instantly turned off. I need a man with confidence and a take—charge attitude. About five minutes later I thanked him for making things awkward and then left.

—Stella

Aftermath: After telling some friends about it I was convinced to give him a chance to redeem himself. We went out on a couple more dates but I was completely repulsed by him after that.