“Maid of (dis)honor”
Six months before the wedding, I finally discovered why my fiance wouldn’t let me in the room when he was on the computer. He was having an online affair with my best friend (and my maid of honor) who was overseas at the time. I was the last one to know, as apparently it had been going on for almost a year.
—Sarah
Aftermath: I may have made a few death threats at the time that resulted in her sprinting in the other direction when we ran into each other on the street. They ended up getting married, and he cheats on her now. I am so relieved that I didn’t end up with someone so insecure that he needs to sleep around to feel like a big man.
Lucky you found out before the wedding. I imagine that was awful. Especially that everyone knew and no one talked about it.
Maybe he didn’t cheat to feel like a man. Maybe he cheated to trade up to a better model.
If the “better model” is cool with a guy cheating on the “previous model” to get to her…then the “better model” needs to be recalled.