It was over when he told me he had no libido anymore, but he didn’t want to go to a doctor to get it checked out.
–Lola
Aftermath: After six sexless months of hell, he went to the doctor, and didn’t follow what he suggested. I moved out a week later.
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This may sound superficial & selfish but my moment came when he couldn’t get it up…I am a very sexual person & not having compatibility in this arena–it’s a major deal breaker. I tried dealing with it, but after a while I just couldn’t. It started out great, his sex drive was right there along with mine but then it kinda slowed down a bit & then the lost erection thing started…that was it!
—Pornqueen
Aftermath: The relationship ended 2 days after our last attempt. The funny thing is that he blamed this on me for, get this, being too pretty & sensual for him…WTF? How is that even a reason? Sigh…
He got mad at me for doubling up on birth control to postpone my period so we could have sex after being away from each other for a week. He seemed to think this was going to somehow get me pregnant.
—H
Aftermath: I tried to talk to him a few times, but gave up when he refused. We never spoke again. Ever.
After sex, I asked him why he spent so much time in the bathroom before returning to bed, and he said “I had to wash my genitals.”
—Lolita
Aftermath: It ended one month later, which was one month too long.
He said he has never had better sex than the sex he has with my mother in his mind. We were both grown adults…
—D
Aftermath: We drifted apart, but I actually attended his wedding a few years later.
