After a few dates, we finally went to an actual restaurant (not fast food). He ordered the steak. Cut it with his knife and fork. Then proceeded to eat it with his hands. He also chugged a bottle of maple syrup in IHOP in front of my friends a week later.

—Gwen

Aftermath: We dated for maybe a month after that. Then he dumped me in Burger King (his favorite restaurant) for some girl he claimed was only his “friend”.

My ex lived 100 miles away, so we didn’t see each other often. After 6 months of dating, he dumped me via text message after I had spent the weekend with him and then texted him when I got home 2 hours later. To top it off, I bought him food and gas after driving 2 hours to see him.

Aftermath: We didn’t talk for a year, but a year ago he started texting me, saying I was the best sex he ever had and trying to get me to hook up. He apparently didn’t know I can see that he’s in a relationship on Facebook, as well as how much he says he “loves” her.

This guy and I were friends for a while, but I was in a long-term relationship and he lived out of town. My boyfriend and I broke up, and my friend flew all the way from Texas to visit, just to make sure I was okay. One thing led to another, and we ended up in bed. He started “pumping” so fast, I couldn’t hold back the laughter. I asked him to get off of me and asked him to leave.

—Ilovesunshine

Aftermath: We never really talked again, and I lost a very dear friend. I wish we never crossed that line.

We were snowed in at her parent’s house and I’d spent the last three and a half hours digging her and her family out. Exhausted, I sagged to the floor of her room and asked if she had any Chapstick. “I offered you some yesterday and you didn’t take it.” “I didn’t need it yesterday.” “Well, than that’s too bad, isn’t it?”
I silently stood up and left the room.

—David

Aftermath: First night I was stuck there was great; second night, she was downright mean. Still not sure if I’m COMPLETELY done with her, but damn, I’m close. I didn’t wait for her to finish a semester abroad so she could come back and talk to me like I’m ten years old.

We were married not quite 4 years when she started spending a lot of time “hanging out” with a coworker. I was too trusting to say anything, then she stopped coming home at night. Shortly after, she said she had feelings for him and needed time to figure things out. I held on for as long as I could, then asked for a divorce.

—Shane

Aftermath: They were together for several years and ended up getting married. On their 2nd anniversary he asked her for a divorce. I did a little dance when I found out.