It was over when he mentioned physically beating on each other would be hot foreplay.

—Ty

Aftermath: He actually did smack me about a week later, but not in any sex play kind of way. I left and that was the end.

We drove to Canada for a trip. I got a UTI and had to cut the trip short because of immense pain. He screamed at me and refused to take me to a hospital until 6 hours later of driving.

—Ashley

Aftermath: Broke up with him as soon as I got home.

We were watching TV and out of nowhere he says, “If you were to get pregnant at this point in time, it would be in your best interest to have an abortion.”

—Jackster

Aftermath: I aborted him out the door and took a pregnancy test- thank goodness it was negative!

We were drinking at his house with some of his friends when we started fighting. I wanted to end the night on an okay note, but he kept yelling at me to leave his house while I pleaded with him to talk to me for a second. Finally he said, “Fine. You have one minute to prove to me that you should be here.” We’d been together for two years, and I realized then that there was something seriously wrong if I had to prove my worth or be kicked out of his house.

—Sara

Aftermath: I stormed out and we broke up the next morning.

With me she was a quiet, innocent girl. At the club she was loud and crazy – 180 degrees from who I thought she was…

—J.

Aftermath: I should have ended it there, but she begged not to leave her. It went on for 2 more years. She’s been engaged and dumped twice since.