“Spank bank account”
My ex picked up a new hobby. Masturbation. Chronic masturbation. To top it off he would make his “deposit” in black T-shirts and leave them around the house.
— Becky
Aftermath: Divorce and a huge child support payment to me. Now the “deposit” is in my bank account.
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Sounds like he is a masturbation (probably porn also) addict. I would say that you should’ve been more supportive but I don’t the situation and if losing his marriage wasn’t enough to stop him I doubt sticking around and praying he helps himself was going to do a damned thing. Good for you for seeing a bad situation and getting out.
Becky, Obviously you did not get the message that your ex was trying to convey.there is one reason alone that he was beating off. That reason is you. You cut off sex because you were trying to punish him for something totally unrelated. The way you see it he will figure it out by reading your mind. Men are not mind readers. If you want a behavior to stop you must say so explicityly. So him turning his own tricks on himself was his release, retaliation, and an oh so just reward for you. He was showing you the his seed was better spilled on a black T shirt than in you. Ha ha ha!
you sound kind of proud of that child support payment. . . way to earn that money.
Just dandy.Yet another child becomes the victim of a selfish, pushy, she-who-wants-it-only-her-way “mother.” The problem was not his porn watching or his beat off session ending with jizz covered black T shirts. Not at all. The problem is the ransom that you, Becky, put on sex in your relationship. Hold intimacy hostage for changes to HIS behavior. Perhaps you should have considered that your behavior was to blame. Pushy, overbearing, demanding, emasculating, rude, and plain old not nice. Why would or should the poor guy service you? Next time, dear Becky, choose wisely and treat kindly.