“Dirt Nap”
I came home one night to find him totally smashed & angry about something. In his drunken stupor he told me, “You better be careful, or you’re gonna be taking a dirt nap.”
—Alive & Well
Aftermath: I started looking for a place the next day, moved out 2 weeks later and broke it off.
7 years and 1 drunken offhand comment meant as a joke ended it. You don’t deserve relationships.
Well, in fairness, the “1 drunken offhand comment” was kinda a death threat…
Definitely wise to leave. If after 7 years there’s that much buried resentment (pardon the pun), you’re both better off ending it sooner rather than later.
chelate, was this you? No one mentioned 7 years, so I’m guessing you’re the drunken idiot.
Sorry but ‘drunken offhand comments’ don’t include murder threats. You don’t deserve human company by the sound of things.