I had gone out with this guy a few times. I told him I didn’t think things were going to work out with us. After our conversation, I wondered if I had made a mistake until I received a text message from him that said, “Can I at least come over and you can sit on my face?”

—Thera

Aftermath: I never talked to him again.

We were cuddling and he said, “I love Asian girls. I was just with this white girl. White girls have body hair and cellulite. And Asian girls have prettier vaginas! Can we have sex?”

—Shancai

Aftermath: There was no nookie that night. I dumped him like a bad habit…though not for a few weeks after this.

I knew it was over when she told me that she had just got out of rehab for crack and she was ashamed of all the things she had done to get crack.

—Dennis

Aftermath: I dropped .00 on the table and never looked back.

We only slept in the same bed, nothing more. I assumed girly issues. I woke up in the morning to a red stain that soaked through everything, even the foam pad, right into the mattress.

—Brendan

Aftermath: Avoided her for 3 weeks, she confronted me, I told her. She’s avoided me since.

When we were getting ready to have sex, she took off my socks, put them on her nose and sniffed them…deeply. Then she wanted to follow me into the bathroom…

—Joe

Aftermath: Slept with her that night, tried to end it, but she kept following me home. That went on for a month. Then I moved.