He called me every name in the book, from stupid to fat-*ss to the C-word. He apologized for calling me a fat *ss.

— fbgroup101

Aftermath: I decided and accepted that he was truly mentally ill and there was no fixing it. I made my exit in every other way possible before the actual physical one took place. I don’t wish him on anyone else, but better them than me.

Things went well for a few months but in the last month or so, I was starting to feel like I couldn’t be myself.  I loved this man, so I had no intention ending it, I just wanted to improve our relationship. So immediately after I told him, he looks at me, takes off his glasses and says “I don’t think I ever loved you.”

— Jaded

Aftermath: He told random people that are regulars at my work about the intimate details of our relationship which one person recounted to their partner, while I served them. My ex called me to apologize and wanted to meet up but I cut him out of my life.

My husband at the time said “I can’t do this anymore”…still not sure what he couldn’t do anymore…lie?…Be with me? He cheated and got the girl pregnant after we got in a fight about having a baby. I lost everything with one sentence.

— Heather

Aftermath: I have since remarried a wonderful man and just had a beautiful baby boy. But part of me wants to know what happened and why he hurt me like that.

He was acting shady one night. He told me he was tired and going to bed early. I decided to drive over and check the situation. I went into the house and sure enough he was not home. But his computer was on and I wandered over to take a look. He left the browser on craigslist. Casual encounters. TS for M. My boyfriend was cheating on me with shemale hookers.

— Crystal

Aftermath: Therapy and std workups.

We were out with friends drinking- I went to the bar to get another round with one of his very gay friends. Waiting for the drinks the guy turns to me and says “Your boyfriend is a good kisser! He stuck his tongue down my throat last time we were out!”

— Jennifer

Aftermath: He broke up with me a few months later. I never told him I knew.