I came home from work and discovered my boyfriend drunk and passed out half naked on my bed after finishing off an entire bottle of wine and all the beer in my fridge. I took the opportunity of him passing out to go through his phone and discovered he was also doing steroids. Bye-bye Crazy!

— kk

Aftermath: I hid his keys and called my best friend and we were walking out the door to go to the bar when he woke up. After arguing with him I finally gave him his keys back and he passed out in his truck. For months afterward I still got psycho phone calls and texts from him, luckily I have a new number now.

I discovered he’d been masturbating to common friends of ours on Facebook for eleven months. First I was heartbroken, then I tried to help him with his “issues” but it all ended in me being pushed down a driveway.

— Catarina

Aftermath: I must admit I still thought I could forgive him when I was in the ER. But after the indifference he’s shown me ever since, I told our friends that he has issues and got over him.

My husband at the time said “I can’t do this anymore”…still not sure what he couldn’t do anymore…lie?…Be with me? He cheated and got the girl pregnant after we got in a fight about having a baby. I lost everything with one sentence.

— Heather

Aftermath: I have since remarried a wonderful man and just had a beautiful baby boy. But part of me wants to know what happened and why he hurt me like that.

He was acting shady one night. He told me he was tired and going to bed early. I decided to drive over and check the situation. I went into the house and sure enough he was not home. But his computer was on and I wandered over to take a look. He left the browser on craigslist. Casual encounters. TS for M. My boyfriend was cheating on me with shemale hookers.

— Crystal

Aftermath: Therapy and std workups.

We were out with friends drinking- I went to the bar to get another round with one of his very gay friends. Waiting for the drinks the guy turns to me and says “Your boyfriend is a good kisser! He stuck his tongue down my throat last time we were out!”

— Jennifer

Aftermath: He broke up with me a few months later. I never told him I knew.