“Sorry Buddy”

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I think it is gonna be over since I found this website written on a piece of paper.


Aftermath: Still waiting.



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He hid his DUI from me for months. Later, he almost threw me out of his house after I asked what I was to him after we’d been “dating” for 4 months.


Aftermath: I slept with him off and on, and after two years of wanting him to fall in love with me, finally realized I need to let go. It’s amazing how great sex can cloud judgment.

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“Another State”

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I found out that he had a girlfriend in another state, a baby on the way (by another girl) and he hocked my ring.


Aftermath: Mere hours

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“Scalpel fights”

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We stopped hanging out as much, because “people were after him” and he was getting in fights. I was suspicious because his injuries always seemed to look too neat. I discovered a few days later that he was cheating on me and cutting himself with a scalpel to simulate wounds from fighting.


Aftermath: That was it. I couldn’t stay with a guy who would rather injure himself than man up.

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“County Fair Cheater”

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I had been dating him for 5 years and I was 7 months pregnant when we went separately to the county fair. He had no idea I was there and saw him kiss another girl. He came home and asked why I was pissed. When I told him, he said “Can’t I have you both?”


Aftermath: We ended our relationship. I am getting married to an amazing guy.