He gave me a used massage oil candle for a going away present when I was moving home to take care of my dying mother.
Aftermath: He called me about a month later to express his condolences after her passing. Shortly thereafter he changed his Facebook status to say he was in a relationship with someone else.
I knew it was over when I knocked on the bathroom door and he said “come in” only for me to see him taking a number 2 and eating breakfast simultaneously.
Aftermath: It ended right there.
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She told me I loaded the dish washer wrong and was going to have to re-teach me everything my mother had ever taught me.
—So Long STL
Aftermath: Packed up a U-Haul and bounced back to the East Coast.
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I knew it was over when every conversation with him was via text message—never a phone call. He lived about 2 or 3 hours away and that was all I got from him after 2 in-person dates. He said I was perfect, wonderful etc. but the distance was too much for him to handle…and it apparently was too much for him to pick up the phone and speak.
Aftermath: It didn’t last more than a month or so after our first date. I tried to get him to call and he blew up at me via text message…
I knew it was over when I gave him a simple gift and card for Valentine’s (our first) and he gave me nothing. He has done nothing to make up for it.
Aftermath: I’m done wasting my time on someone who doesn’t want to make an effort.
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