I was his date to his sister’s wedding. That night he danced with other women, got drunk in front of his family (whom he forgot to introduce me to) and by the end forgot that I was his date. He called the next morning apologizing for not saying good-bye. He had in fact said good-bye, but was too drunk to remember it.

— happier now

Aftermath: We broke up on Valentine’s Day after he was late picking me up because he took a long nap after going hashing (running and drinking) that morning. I finally had enough and knew I deserved better.

After 7 months of dating, when we were out to dinner, I was in the middle of a sentence and he started moving his hand in a “talking” motion (fingers and thumb touching together as a mouth opening and closing). He looked straight at me, turned to his hand, and used his other hand to shut it. Apparently, I was supposed to stop talking. I didn’t say another word the rest of the night.

— Irritated Girl

Aftermath: A few days later we mutually ended the relationship. Two weeks later he’s dating a girl 6 years older than him with an 8-year-old daughter.

Before it even started. We were on our first date and he would not shut up about how he has done the internet dating thing for the past 12 years and how he conned his last girlfriend into having sex with him because he was a virgin. He also offered to get me another drink, which I though was nice, but then he says to the bartender, “Put it on her tab.”

— Anon (Woman)

Aftermath: He texted me to say he had a nice time and hopes we can go out again soon. I am hoping he gets the picture by my ignorning him.

We started making out, and his chewing tobacco spit went into my mouth.

— Katie

Aftermath: I never saw, or spoke, to him again.

When he wanted to go to Kohl’s and buy me underwear that he had bought his wife. (Yes, he was married) Told him “NO” and he said “but it made her ass look sooo nice!!”

— Windy

Aftermath: There is nothing wrong with my ass so I broke up with him. Changed my phone number. How rude!