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“Ahimsa (Do No Harm)”

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I’m not a religious person, but I never intend to hurt and kill anyone. This guy I knew for a few months told me one day that he had two women terminate their pregnancies.

—Ahimsa

Aftermath: It’s his Karma. I wanted nothing to do with him.

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“Airplanes”

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We were having dinner at a restaurant the night my sister was flying in for an internship. He asked me what airline she was flying, and I replied, AA. He joked, “Well it’s probably going to fly into a building then.” I stared at him and bursted out into tears because I hadn’t heard back from her yet, and even the thought of that happening scared the shit out of me.

—Jane

Aftermath: He apologized for upsetting me, but not for the joke. He said I need to get a sense of humor.

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““Unreasonable””

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I said we needed to spend at least one evening a week and one afternoon or evening a weekend together if he wanted this marriage to work. He said I was “unreasonsble” — and went out yet again with his drinking buddies.

— AMD

Aftermath: I’m way less lonely now that I’m alone.

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“Dinner Party Drinking Disaster”

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I knew it was over when he showed up at a dinner party I was invited to WITHOUT me and got so drunk that my friends called me to complain. 2 months later, I came back to school from a bad weekend home, and he dumped me after 5 minutes. His friends (who helped hook us up) talked him into it (while drinking), saying we were “too serious”. They were all engaged to be married

Cyryn

Aftermath: Some months later, I was leaving the dorm to go out (dressed just a shade punk), and ended up holding the door open for a couple in Armani suits. His parents asked who I was. He claimed to not know.

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“Lessons Learned”

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My husband at the time said, “I can’t do this anymore.” We got into a fight about having a baby (I wanted to and he didn’t), and he cheated and got the girl pregnant right after.

—Heather

Aftermath: I have since remarried a wonderful man and just had a beautiful baby boy. But part of me wants to know what happened and why he hurt me like that.

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